Thursday, December 31, 2009

Happy 2010 from the Hospital **

I am counting the hours till this sucky year finally ends and a brand New Year comes to light! 2009 is the year of the Ox according to the Chinese Zodiac and I happen to fall in the Ox category. I knew it was going to be a terrible year thanks to the general fortune predicted for those born in the year of the Ox.

Fortune: Ox people always have unsatisfied events in every Ox year. The fortune in career, wealth, health, love and family will be below expectation in 2009.

I couldn't agree with this more! It has been a terrible year for me all-around and though I don't always display my distress at my blog, my offline world testifies to the trials and tribulations poor B and me had to endure. Aside from work being slow throughout the year, I also had to go through several hardships, which I've expressed through my Dear Diary posts. We had a big scare with Chubbs hospitalized early on in the year while MPG failed to recapture her PR days. I fell sick a couple of times too, which is unusual from the usually strong and healthy me. Smiley

The last straw came last week, which saw my poor darling being sick. His condition, which I will keep discreet; has worsened over the past few days. And though he has been on leave since Christmas, not a day has gone by without B feeling pain. It has gotten unbearable; rendering him bed-ridden and hardly able to walk what more drive. So guess where we'll be spending New Year's Eve this year? At the hospital where B is scheduled to be admitted this afternoon to undergo treatment for his pain and if required, a minor surgery will be performed!

Talk about ending the year with a bang right?

I've been keeping a low profile these past few days. It's not fun being online when I'm worried sick about my other half suffering in pain. My days have been occupied taking care of a
depressed Chubbs and a sick hubby so yes; I am more than a little stressed right now! Smiley

Like I've been telling B since the beginning of the year, this one is gonna be a sucky one so be prepared. And true enough, everything that could possibly go wrong this year, went wrong for us, especially me. Murphy's Law was at large throughout my days in 2009, which is why I for one, am so glad this year is finally coming to an end. Wish us luck at
the hospital today and Happy 2010. Here's to a better year for you and for me!



David Funk,  December 31, 2009 1:37 PM

Hey Mariuca,

Obviously only having met you in the last couple months, I was unaware of this being such a bad year for you.

As far as work being slow, I know that feeling all too well. Like you, I seldom get sick either, but that does happen to even the healthiest of people.

I'm sorry about B being in pain and what he's had to endure. After reading this, I really admire how you handle yourself on the blogs by not bringing your offline life to them even though it would be easy for someone to do.

We all have problems, and I do appreciate you sharing this. I'm glad that in 2009, that you did become my online friend. :)

Here's wishing you, B, and your cats good health and more joyful and better 2010! :* :* :*

emila,  December 31, 2009 2:44 PM

marzie! good luck to B for the operation! ie-mailed you something, you open and read, k!

Happy new year to you and B. As for me, this year saw me working my ass out like hell and as my health condition for the previous weeks was so bad that I could hardly produce drawings. I am feeling better today and hope that it'll stay that way throughout 2010.

hugs & kisses;
from me and yassin
:* :*

LadyJava,  December 31, 2009 3:46 PM

8-) 8-) 8-)

LadyJava,  December 31, 2009 3:50 PM

GP! So sorry to hear about B.. I had no idea it was this bad.. been so preoccupied with mama's condition and things you know.. anyway.. i've emailed you edi..

Sending a prayer over to you and B today...

LadyJava,  December 31, 2009 3:53 PM

Here's to a better and brighter and healthy 2010 for all of us dearie!!

Debbs,  December 31, 2009 3:59 PM

Hola Marzie! Hope Chubbs and your darling B will get better soon! Take good care of them and also of yourself k? Sending some love from Kuching, Sarawak. :)


Tekkaus,  December 31, 2009 4:09 PM

You are in the year of ox too Mau? Then you are 24 too? :p

Tekkaus,  December 31, 2009 4:10 PM

Goodness, sorry to hear that. I hope B will get well soon. :(

eastcoastlife,  December 31, 2009 5:03 PM

Poor B. Hope it's not too serious.
You take care too.

eastcoastlife,  December 31, 2009 5:04 PM

Glad the year is ending soon, look forward to a better year ahead.
Happy New Year!

Feron,  December 31, 2009 6:18 PM

Hello Marzie... God Willing everything will be alright and wish good things and good health.

Happy 2010! :) ;)

Feron,  December 31, 2009 6:22 PM

Hello Marzie... God Willing everything will be alright and wish good things and good health.

Happy 2010! :) ;)

Rizal,  December 31, 2009 9:12 PM

Salam Marzie,

Sorry to hear that. Rizal doakan Marzie dan B dalam keadaan yang baik. Kirim salam kat B.

Semoga cepat sembuh.

Banyak berehat yer Marzie, penat bekerja tu Rizal tgk tahun 2009, tambah dah ada 3 blogs lagi.

I wish you all the best and may 2010 bring all the goodness to your whole family. May you be blessed too Marzie.

You take care ya :)

Jean,  December 31, 2009 9:53 PM

Marzie!!! i am so sorry to hear abt the terrrible things that happened. *hugz* to you!! Happy 2010 to you & B! May the new year brings more happiness and successes to you both!! *hugz*

Jean,  December 31, 2009 9:54 PM

hope B feels better! *hugz* to B! cheer up, k! :-D

Fida Abbott,  December 31, 2009 10:23 PM

I hope he will get better soon. And I hope you will be strong. I'm sure you are.
Happy New Year! :)

lilyruth,  December 31, 2009 10:43 PM

Dear Friend I know what it is to be in pain. I do hope B will be alright and that this coming new year will be a better one for both of you. Keep the faith and I do hope B will no longer be in pain once he gets out of the hospital. Wishing both of you a Happy New Year and at least you both will be together when the new year does come in. Just you wait everyting will be fine. God bless Hugs from Me and mine.lilyruth

diya,  January 01, 2010 12:30 AM


hopefully everything will be alright asap. Take care yeah, dear! :)

ayie,  January 01, 2010 2:46 AM

what's more important is that you and B are together through thick and thin, this might have been a rough year for you but hang on...things will be better this new year :* :*

ayie,  January 01, 2010 2:46 AM

i still want to wish you happy new year, hoping for B's successful operation and speedy recovery

ayie,  January 01, 2010 2:46 AM

hugs and kisses marzie!! :* :* :*

Monica,  January 01, 2010 4:24 AM

Mariuca!!! :* :* :* :*

Monica,  January 01, 2010 4:29 AM

so sorry to hear abt B being sick, hope he's getting better :(

Monica,  January 01, 2010 4:34 AM

May 2010 bring u and B a year of peace, love and happiness! :* :* :* :*

Annas Adornments,  January 01, 2010 8:45 AM

Dear Mariuca!
It is just past Midnight hear in Sweden and I thought I would wish you Happy New Year.
What bad luck! Hope it isn't serious. Hope you all get well soon, all of you, including Chubster.
Who is taking care of Chubsterwhile you are in the hospital ? Or do you have to go back and forth from home and the hospital? Well, Hope 2010 will be a good year for you!
Best wishes

silvergirl,  January 01, 2010 9:11 AM

sorry to hear this ,May each day of the New Year bring happiness, good cheer and sweet surprises to you and all your dear ones. Happy New Year!

Lil,  January 01, 2010 10:28 AM

My dearest Marzie,
Soooooooo sorry to hear about B & Chubbs. I tell you here, I can feel what you are feeling now. Marzie, pray and seek helpand guidance from Allah the All Mighty. I pray for you, your B and all your babies esp. Chubbs and B to be much, much better soon and that your B will be so fineeeeeee & healthy after this minor operation, Insha' Allah! All these are tests for us Marzie, to make us stronger than before, if you can cope and handle this situation, yet still calm, Insha' Allah,I can assure you all will be over soon for the new year. Just be calm and do the right thing, ok dearest?

Same goes here,in fact, I am having the biggest problem of my life these days , it is the worst experience I am experiencing now, only Allah knows, me living only on my saving and trying to get a house in KL since KL is the place for more opportunities, still not fruitful and imagine without a job & being alone to cope with myall the hardship after my brother had betrayed me selling the house which is supposed to be under my name, till I have to be a "Musafir" pindah sama sini, wasted my saving unneccessily and now here with these selfish orang kg abandoning their many cats and kittens to me thinking that I ni kaya sangat. Me being an animal lover dok pertahan up to my nose feeding like now 34 cats, crazy kan!, nak bawa those rescued cats/kittens to SPCA pun dok -slowing down the process tunggu those yg janji hendak ambil them still main ding-dong-bell tak muncul2 dah masuk 2010 pun! Besides all these my well to do sisters and their spouse tak nak bagi I peluang pun kot bagi kerja sementara di Co, mereka, dah lah kaya2 ambil lagi the share of the house sold which was supposed to be under my name, so greedy and tak ada hati perut, mereka let me struggle on my own and couldn't be bothered even to just give a helping hands just to give a job for a while to start my life.

I wish all of us have a better year this year and lots and lots of good luck, good health especially so that we could think staight and accompanies by good wealth so that we can carry on our life without struggling so much, Insha' Allah my dearest Marzie, I will pray for you to ringankan what you are experiencing now!

More love and more hugzzzzz to you dearest Marzia.

Evan's Mom,  January 01, 2010 11:14 AM

Oh so sorry to hear that. Hope B & Chubbs are much better now, so you can let go your worry. I know how it feels when our love ones are sick.
Wishing for a brighter year for all of us in 2010, happy new year for you and yours!

eastcoastlife,  January 01, 2010 11:26 AM

My wishes for you,
Great start for Jan,
Love for Feb,
Peace for March,
No worries for April,
Fun for May,
Joy for June to Nov,
Happiness for Dec,
Have a lucky and wonderful 2010, Mariuca and B!

Nessa,  January 01, 2010 11:33 AM

Happy new year 2010 Marzie!!

So sad to hear about B... hope he gets well soon ya.

santhy,  January 01, 2010 4:27 PM

get well soon...happy new year!

Bill,  January 02, 2010 3:20 AM

I am so sorry to hear about pour B. :( I hope he just feeling better real soon. I am also glad that 2009 has closed and hoping that 2010 will be better for everybody. :) :)

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 5:42 AM

Hey David, FC1! :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 5:43 AM

Hey Emila, FC2! :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 5:44 AM

Thanks for the chop on my sad NY post! >:o >:o :'( :'(

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 5:47 AM

Hi David, yeah I am glad we became buds in 2009 too of coz, love that I have a new hang out now.. yeah it was a terrible year all around and it took all my willpower not to scream the whole neighbourhood down... so many things went awry, so many tears shed and so many times I just could not wait for the miserable yr to end.

I love to share on my blog but some things which are just too personal and will definitely bring tears to my eyes if I write about it, that I try to keep to myself. Thanks for the wonderful NY wish too, I wish you the very best in all things dear to you and your family, this 2010. :* :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 5:49 AM

Hi Emila, lucky got internet here at the hosp, saja cuba then dapat connect so at least I can reply my comments. I got your email and thanks! Cubaan lepas cubaan last year kan and I am also glad to hear your health situasi is under control now. Mmg sakit gila... and I don't ever wish it on anyone else. Hugs dearie and Happy 2010. We plan our reunion after B habis MC okay? :* :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 5:50 AM

8-) 8-) 8-)

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 5:52 AM

Thanks LJ, did not wan to burden you with my own probs cause you already have ur hands full. Thanks for the prayer, I am seriously depresi at the mo..... just going through the motions not knowing what to do next.... >:o >:o >:o >:o >:o >:o

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 5:53 AM

Thanks LJ, this will definitely be one NY both B and I will forever remember.. >:o >:o *DONT_KNOW* *DONT_KNOW*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 5:55 AM

Debbs! Missed u cutie, loooooong time no see! Thanks so much for the well wishes. Chubbs is eating again so at least that's good news.. I am at the hospital now. B's condition is better than when he first started contracting this damn pain but he will be on a very long MC.... slow recovery sigh..... :'( :'( :'(

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 5:56 AM

He he sure... I'll take 24 any day Tekkaus, thanks for cheering me up lol... ;) ;) ;)

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 5:57 AM

Stupid Ox yr!!!! B oso Ox btw, maybe dat's why double the misery!!! :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 5:58 AM

Thank you Tekkaus, recovery is still far away and long... trying my best to cope with the situation but of coz feeling a little depressed at the mo... >:o >:o >:o :-E :-E :-E :-E

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 5:59 AM

All I can say is that it is seriously damn painful and it pains me to see him in pain and I can't do anything about it... hmmmm getting more depressed replying my comments here ECL... so sad for B and thanks so much for ur kind words here.... :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:01 AM

Good riddance 2009, sorry that it was just bad all around for me... but Happy 2010 to you ECL! How did u celebrate your NY? :-D :-D :-D

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:02 AM

You are very kind Feron, thank you for thinking of me and my B during this trying moment in our life... Happy 2010! :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:05 AM

Tenkiu Rizal, I pun harap cepat sembuh but mmg confirm lama ni nak betul2 recover. It is a slow painful process and I dunno how much longer B can stand being here in the hosp... tensi, tired, all cried out edi thinking abt 2009 and all the misery it brought my way....>:o >:o :'( :'( :'(

Some more my vakasi yg tgh plan terpaksa cancel due to B's bad condition... so dunno what to say la... :-E :-E :-E :-E :-E

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:06 AM

Happy 2010 Rizal but truly all I can say right now is what's so happy abt it? Nothing, for me at least... so I hope the year will change for the better...baru first day ni... kamon 2010, I am counting on you! O:-) O:-) O:-) O:-) O:-)

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:07 AM

Hi Jean!!! Seeing you here at my sad post definitely gave me some comfort, thanks so much sweetie.. I wish you a wonderful 2010 with M, love and hugs! :* :* :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:08 AM

B is very sad right now Jean, he has not smiled once ever since admitted. I am at the hosp right now and waiting to hear what Doc has to say later. If can discharge today, thank god but if cannot... more tears! :'( :'( :'( :'( :'( :'(

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:09 AM

Hah! My resolve to be strong is weakening by the minute Fida... I can't think straight right now, too worried thinking what's in store for us next, more bad news??? >:o >:o >:o >:o

Thanks so much for dropping by sweetie, you are so sweet, hugs! :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:12 AM

Thanks so much for your wonderful message here Lily, I feel like I am losing faith cause I am just so stressed out right now.. no mood to do much and all I can think about is this current situation we are thrown into once again. I wish you and your family a wonderful New Year and better things to come, hugs! :* :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:12 AM

Thank you Diya... rasa malas nak mengharap... tensi je....hugs! :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:15 AM

Thanks Ayie, through thick and thin we will always be but it was more tears than smiles last year, in a major way too which gets me so angry sometimes thinking abt it! Happy 2010 to u and hubs! :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:17 AM

Thanks sweetie, the operation was successful but the recovery is taking lots of time and the pain is still real enough to make my poor darling wince every time he moves. He really can't move around much for now. Thanks again, hugs.... :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:18 AM

Oh I do need that right now Ayie, thanks so much!!!! :* :* :* :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:18 AM

Monica! :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:19 AM

I dunno what to say la Mon... tensi to da max right now, still sad this had to happen to B.. what awful timing and why oh why? >:o >:o >:o >:o >:o >:o

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:20 AM

I hope so too sweetie, it did not feel like a NY to me at all... I came back from the hops slept on my sofa and woke up to fireworks banging outside my home.... Happy 2010 to you and R... :-D :-D :-D

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:24 AM

Hi Anna, thanks so much for coming by today. I smiled reading your comment, thank you for thinking of my meows while I'm under so much stress right now... Hubby is still in recovery, so we're not completely out of the woods just yet..As for Chubbster and the other two, they are now at home in their kitty condo waiting for me to come home. I am going back and forth from home and the hospital yes..and it's seriously taking its toll on me.. I had better lose some weight during this very trying time! ;) ;)

Happy 2010 to you too sweetie, I am counting on this year to change my luck in all aspects of my life, big hugs to you! :* :* :* :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:25 AM

Thank you Silvergirl, it's very nice of you to send well wishes my way and I hope u have a wonderful 2010 with your loved ones as well... :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:27 AM

Lil'!!!!!!!! Thanks so much sweetie.... I am trying to endure this test but test after test non stop and I dunno just how much more I can take... I am so glad the year finally ended but what a note it ended on, for me. And what a start too...dah tak tahu nak cakap apa dah... mcm zombie just go with the flow and see what happens next... thanks Lil'..... :* :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:31 AM

Astaga..... ciannya you Lil'!!!!! Mai kita hug sama-sama sat... :* :* :* :* :*

Betrayal by family is the worst kind and I can understand your situasi, I feel so bad for u sweetie...dgn masalah rumah, takde savings, kucing semakin byk and nobody coming to ur aid. It is indeed a miracle that you are still holding on. Thanks so much for sharing with me. I will use u as my role model to keep my hope and faith alive and I wish the very very best for you and your meows this 2010. You're such a wonderful friend, love and hugs! :* :* :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:40 AM

Thank you Evan's Mom! I can't wait for this ordeal to be over so I can resume normal living again. For now it's all abt hospitals and commuting to and fro my home to see my hubby at hosp... and a whole lotta stress! >:o >:o >:o

Wishing you a wonderful 2010 and I hope urs will be a terrific fruitful one, hugs! :* :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:42 AM

YAY thank you ECL, love dis NY poem! So August will be joy for me yay... I wish you and your family a great New Year filled with love, joy and success.. HUGS! :* :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:44 AM

Nessa! Thanks sweetie and Happy 2010 to you and hubby. I tak sempat leave a NY msg for hubby, but pls send him my well wishes of coz. I also got ur mail, thanks fro sending back the credits... I totally forgot abt it ha ha!! :-[ :-[ :-[ :-[

Me too heartbroken thinking abt my poor helpless darling now Nessa, tears mcm mana pun still tak take the pain away of seeing him in the hospital right now, depresi...... :'( :'( :'( :'(

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:45 AM

Thanks Santhy, Happy New Year to you and your family as well.. :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 02, 2010 6:48 AM

Bill! Thanks so much for your kind words.. I am exhausted from all the running around and more than just a little stressed! Trying to cope as best as I can and I too can't wait to see what 2010 has in store for us. Here's wishing you and your family the best year ever esp for us Virgos! :* :* :* :*

Roxiticus Desperate Housewives,  January 02, 2010 7:37 AM

So sad to hear the way your rotten 2009 ended with B in the hospital... but hoping 2010 will be the turnaround year for all of us. Get well soon, B!
Love and hugs,

Beth,  January 02, 2010 10:40 AM

Hey Marzie.. I hope your hubby will feel better soon. I think we all have/ had experience hardships. I just hope and pray that 2010 brings peace and prosperity , and health to us!

Take care

Emm,  January 03, 2010 5:45 PM

Oh, that is so interesting. I never knew that about the year of the ox as I am ox too. I must say, career wise it was a pretty blah year and we had a couple of family problems but... if that means 2010 is going to be better, then that is all that matters!

bain,  January 04, 2010 7:27 AM

Happy 2010! yay!!!~ ^_^

ayie,  January 05, 2010 9:01 AM

thanks dearie

ayie,  January 05, 2010 9:02 AM

hubs was also under the weather, been taking care of him the whole holidays

ayie,  January 05, 2010 9:02 AM

sweetie maybe you can email me your addy and cp number ;)

ayie,  January 05, 2010 9:03 AM

well you're there for him, that will make his recovery with so much ease! your tlc is all B needs :* :*

Mizé,  January 07, 2010 11:46 AM

Hi Marzie. I´m catching up my reading here. I decided to spend most of this season´s holidays in offline mode so I haven´t been around or making drops as usual.
I´m an Ox too and, as you know, this wasn´t a good year for me as well. Maybe the Tiger will bring us better days.
I´m really sorry to hear about B´s condition.
Hugs, Mizé xx

Choc Mint Girl,  January 07, 2010 8:01 PM

Marzie! Sorry to hear about what you've been going through. I hope your hubby is getting better and may this year brings more good things throughout the year and years to come. Take good care!

Mariuca,  January 18, 2010 7:11 AM

Hi sweetie, so sorry for my late reply… and thanks so much for ur kind words here. Hubby is returning to work today after two weeks of recovery. I hope this year brings you the very best as well, hugs! :)

Mariuca,  January 18, 2010 7:14 AM

Thanks Ayie, ur so sweet! :)

Mariuca,  January 18, 2010 7:18 AM

Thanks Roxy! It was so sudden and we didn't expect he'd end up in the operating room, but thank goodness everything is okay now. It was tough but we got through it just fine, big hugs! :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 18, 2010 7:19 AM

Thanks sweetie, happy everything turned out okay and I wish u the very best in 2010 as well, hugs! :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 18, 2010 7:20 AM

Oh u too Ox? Here's to better luck, wealth and health for us this year then, have a good one and thanks for dropping by! :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 18, 2010 7:20 AM

Happy 2010 Bain! :* :* :*

Mariuca,  January 18, 2010 7:21 AM

Yay u too Ox Mize? Yup, last year was def not a good one for you, so the prediction was kinda true right? Let's hope we Ox get compensated this year with only the best of everything! And thanks so much for checking on B, love and hugs! :* :* :*

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